Sumaira McCloud

I've never really understood why a person would remain in a relationship or job environment that is destroying their happiness and mental state. If you are unhappy after trying and trying and doing all you possibly could have for a situation, it is time you move on, leave, change it up. You are allowed to do so. I don't know what book people read where they think they are forced to stay somewhere or contracted by law to be with a certain man/woman! (Even if you ARE married, there is a thing called divorce). I know one side of my readers are going to throw up their arms and mention the obvious, family being torn and friends and people wanting to keep their perfect life and not air their dirty laundry--But see, those are the people who care more about an image versus what is INSIDE The image. These kind of people think they are avoiding being talked about by remaining miserable and doing things they think are expected of them. The other group of people falls in

No one gets it, I feel so alone, all the time. Being surrounded by family or friends doesn't make a shit's difference. I feel as if no one can relate to what I've been through... I mean, how could they? They haven't been through it. I don't like isolating myself, but I find myself wishing I was alone while I am around others. What the fuck is wrong with me? I seem to never be happy or able to be happy. I can't get over things. I hold grudges. I know my flaws. I don't need advice or anyone to listen. Wanna know why? Because that won't change a damn thing. I still don't have my mom, I never will again. I can vent and let it out, but what the fuck will that change? Will it make me feel lighter and happier? No. I will feel as if now whoever the fuck was bored enough to listen feels bad for me. Or feels happy they aren't me. Or feels like they don't know what to say or do, because truly they can't do or say anything. They most likely will th

If you take offense to something that is not directly said to you or meant to be for you, chances are, you're guilty. A guilty conscious is more aware than the non-guilty conscious about certain things that pertain to them (in their life). Example: If you happen to talk shit about someone behind their back, and COINCIDENTALLY this same person you spoke about happens to write some kind of public/casual statement/quote just directing it to ANYONE who is two faced or unable to say things to a person's face, you may perhaps automatically assume it is about you, when in fact this person never even knew you did such a thing! Don't act guilty, if you're not guilty. Don't do stupid shit. If you are guilty, keep that shit to yourself, or else you are just telling on yourself. If you just don't do stupid shit, you won't need to feel guilty. Lol. -ssr

People who bluntly are rude or disrespectful to elder people, handicap people, or just people who are innocent and don't deserve to be treated this way. Co-workers who are so desperate for PAY DAY to come around, yet, all week they talk about smoking pot, going out, getting drunk, taking vacations that they CLEARLY cannot afford. Get your shit together. Grow up. If not, at least stop talking about how bad you need money 24/7. I have no sympathy for IDIOTS who are just bad at money management and refuse to even try to get help/be better/do anything positive! Adults/Teachers/Parents who make anyone younger than them feel like they do not matter. I can't stand this because I'm one of those people who truly believes EVERYONE can learn something new EVERYDAY from ANYONE. Open ya eyes, man! When someone does a sub tweet, status update, or OPEN AIR "Indirect" comment that is meant for ONE to see but the person doesn't have enough of a backbone to

I was overweight. I was overweight for almost two years. Was I unhappy? No, not exactly. I had friends, I had a loving boyfriend, and I even dressed up and went out, a lot! The things that did bother me however, was when it came to family sometimes. I don't know whether it was my culture that caused this, or just simply the people I was around often only saw beauty to be one specific way: Skinny. At times, I felt really disrespected and almost as if my opinion didn't matter and I wasn't taken seriously. Why? Because a lot of people are assholes and think that everyone who is heavy is either heavy because of personal choice, or super unhappy and insecure. Neither of these are true! Not everyone overweight is like this because they had a choice in the matter. Not everyone who is bigger is insecure. Some people are perfectly fine and happy this way! But, society sucks and they judge and make up their own ideas of beauty and happiness and label others. This brings some people

This is my fun and free list of simple ways to make yourself happy! No specific order :) This blog was inspired by this young lady right Here *1* Go OUTSIDE! Many of us are stuck indoors while working all day, then we come home and sit/relax! Try to spend some time outdoors. Walk your pets longer, sit on the patio with a cup of tea, lay down in a hammock! Whatever you have around you, use it! You'll feel great! *2* Call someone you love/miss. So many of us (including parents) have resulted to texting as a means of communication/keeping in touch, that we have forgotten how nice it is to hear from someone! Just the sound of hearing someone's voice or laugh (that you care for) can reduce depression, in my opinion. *3* Make your very own list of what makes you happy! Think of things or places that make you smile, and you'll notice just by writing it down your memories will take you back there and you'll feel a sense of peace for that moment. *4* Create a