If you're still holding on, LET GO
In friendships, relationships, family ties there is always one annoying problem that sometimes happens/exists and we all still hold on so that we don't ruin anything. Let me explain. One day you are fine and the sun is out and everyone is getting along perfectly. Then, all of a sudden SOMETHING happens. A fight, an argument, a confession, a truth seen without words being said, and you realize you and this _____ (whoever) will never be the same again. You will still love each other, but it's not the same. But you hold on for dear life because you just cannot live without this person. Here's my point of view. If you are the ONLY one still trying to make ammends, LET GO. If you are the only person putting effort into calling or planning events just to see this person, LET GO. The more you hold on (tightly) the farther you are pushing them, because all you're doing is becoming a "chaser" and the person being chased will only enjoy that (without admitting