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Abusers

The reason many do not know that someone is an abuser is because there is no tag worn when someone has a personality to be abusive. The woman or man in a relationship being abused are typically the only ones at first who witness it, until they reach out and finally tell their friends or family.  So, as a stranger, how do you know? Do you know? Will you ever know? The man or woman in a nice outfit with that bright smile who gets their non-fat grande latte every morning you wave at could very well be a man or woman who is suffering on the inside, having anger problems, and is unable to have the confidence or courage to reach out for help. They are the abuser. Everyone knows him or her as a popular, loveable, handsome/beautiful, rich, outgoing and basically quote on quote, perfect. When and if you ever witness a small sign of someone having an anger issue, do not take it lightly. Yelling and easily frustrated are the top two signs of someone who has an abusive/unstable personali