Hey, stop constantly being a victim
You know what really grinds my gear? <-- THAT PHRASE lol, just kidding
But lately (by lately I meant May 2018 when I wrote most of this...)
I've been having conversations with reformed-victims. Such as friends, who at one point used to sulk in self pity and have excuses for every "wrong thing" in their life. I was a part of that club too, and sometimes I like to visit here during my period because it's fun for like two mins. But I stopped, and you should, too!
Sooooo....Are you a "victim"? Are you constantly coming up with excuses when things don't go as planned? Are you perhaps failing to see that your decisions are a direct correlation to your "failures?" Please stop. IT'S SO FREAKIN UNATTRACTIVE!!!
Once you become self-aware it is REALLY hard to go backwards. You can only see from that point of view, so I recommend it to everyone.
This "awakening" has actually helped me care a lot less for things/people who are just stuck in a cycle of self-inflicted-pity and failing to take responsibility for their choices.
Wake up, take responsibility, don't complain without making actual changes to better your situation and stop living in a 'everything sucks' mode when it truly doesn't.
But lately (by lately I meant May 2018 when I wrote most of this...)
I've been having conversations with reformed-victims. Such as friends, who at one point used to sulk in self pity and have excuses for every "wrong thing" in their life. I was a part of that club too, and sometimes I like to visit here during my period because it's fun for like two mins. But I stopped, and you should, too!
Sooooo....Are you a "victim"? Are you constantly coming up with excuses when things don't go as planned? Are you perhaps failing to see that your decisions are a direct correlation to your "failures?" Please stop. IT'S SO FREAKIN UNATTRACTIVE!!!
Once you become self-aware it is REALLY hard to go backwards. You can only see from that point of view, so I recommend it to everyone.
This "awakening" has actually helped me care a lot less for things/people who are just stuck in a cycle of self-inflicted-pity and failing to take responsibility for their choices.
Wake up, take responsibility, don't complain without making actual changes to better your situation and stop living in a 'everything sucks' mode when it truly doesn't.
-s
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